3/26/2013

Happy Birthday, love.

As of last Sunday, I am not married to a younger man anymore, if you just look at the age that is. Neil turned 38 a week after I did! Lily, Blue and myself woke up way early (well, one of us WAS woken up way early by the other two), so we thought we might as well make a chocolate cake. After a generous infusion of coffee (me), a bowl of cat food (Blue) and one of cereal (the princess).
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The day before we had all gone to a fishing and hunting store so Neil could pick his birthday gift: fishing equipment! Two fishing rods (one is for the kids), nets, a filleting knife, a club for knocking the poor fishies unconscious and other odds and ends. Then the kids set to decorating the living room.
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If this is what Finn imagines their fishing expeditions to be like, then I am NOT coming. 
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After the birthday boy woke up he got to open his presents and got lots of birthday cuddles. We love you, so much!
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Later in the day, barbecue season was officially opened. So what if it was cold out. The calendar says it's SPRING, darn it.
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The farm where I buy my meat had butchered one of their pasture raised steers, and let me tell you - the steaks I got were AMAZING. And grilled to perfection by the master griller.


Somebody really enjoyed his birthday lunch. :)
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And the chocolate cake Lily, Blue and I made.
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The end. :)

It's fun having a birthday on a weekend, when we can spend time as a family and celebrate together. This year, ALL our birthdays are on a weekend, how cool is that. Mine and Neil's were on a Sunday, and the kids' will both be on a Saturday. Lily is asking me about twice daily how many days until her birthday.She's been doing this for months. Somebody sure can't wait to turn six in a few weeks!


3/19/2013

Just so you know:


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If you can't find me, I'm where the wild things are!
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And to start this off right, for my birthday we went to where the wild, green things were. But first I woke up to breakfast, flowers, presents and a lovingly decorated living room. The kids looked through their toy boxes and found 38 horses, ponies and unicorns for my "motto party". Actually, they found a lot more. What a relief. I can live to be a hundred and the decorations will be taken care of.





I even was serenaded with "Smoke on the Water" by my little man.


My favourite present came from Oma. After she crocheted these adorable little mice for Finn and Lily I told her I wanted a BIG one for my birthday, as a couch pillow. It came out perfect! Thank you! The kids named her "Mama Couch Mouse" right away.


That night, after the kids were in bed, I looked over to the couch and Mama Couch Mouse was GONE! I retrieved her from the scary depths of Finn's boy cave aka his bed. Keep your hands off my Mama Couch Mouse! 


And this gem of a card came from my sister, currently residing in the UK. Watch out, Ulli, I'm coming to visit you soon and us Middle Agers are shameless when it comes to embarrassing people, including little sisters! Get the hoola hoop ready, I'll bring my Jane Fonda leotard, circa 1989.


After church (my birthday was last Sunday) we had sushi and Lily put the finishing touches on some yummy cupcakes.



And then it was time to get WILD! Because it wasn't only Sunday, it also was St. Patrick's Day, so we went to the Irish Pub to hang out with some friends and all the other wild green things.
There was live music, some crazy dancing (curtesy of us), and even the Scots paid a visit. They're not exactly Irish, but the "Kirkcaldy Pipes and Drums" were close enough and they were in town. 









Finn was sitting on his favourite bar stool and suddenly found himself surrounded by men in kilts and lots of noise.




"MOM! He's wearing a SKIRT!"


Darling, can I get YOU a kilt? I think it would look SO good on you. And I imagine it must be pretty comfortable, all nice and, well, airy. You can even keep the green moustache, if you want. 


So. I had a great birthday. Thank you to my family and friends for making this day special. And for putting up with me every other day of the year. You all make me very very happy.
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3/11/2013

Saturday pictures


Weekend videos

And here are the kiddos (and Neil) in motion.
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Lily is working on her balance and once that improves she will be able to hold her hands still and where they belong. But for being only 5 she is doing very well, and she just loves it. Just look at that grin on her face!
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Finn decided he wanted to get out his roller skates for the first time since last summer after we came back from the stable. He sends this little message to Oma.
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3/08/2013

No matter what the weatherman says ...

 ... we are DONE with winter!
Neil drove home from work topless (in a BMW convertible), I rode a frisky Mo outside and got a slight sunburn in my face, and the kids spent the afternoon in the yard, adding some color and lots of noise to the neighbourhood.
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And the snow predicted for next week can stay far far away.
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3/07/2013

Muddy March Madness and Meet Mogli!

Spring has sprung and hopefully we won't see any more snow until Christmas! The first flowers are out, and sometimes the sun even shines. Apparently we just survived the darkest winter in recorded history. It sure felt like it.
With the warmer temperatures comes the mud. Not usually a problem for city dwellers, for us horse riding folk this is a sticky, boggy, yucky, smelly time of year. Especially if the mud is in a horse paddock and contains a large proportion of "organic matter". Luckily, Finn is always happy if he can wade through the muck to get a horse or pony for his Mama, who is waiting on relatively dry gound by the gate. And this Mama needs to remember to put a change of clothes for the kids in the car. Because, sometimes the mud is stronger than Finn.

 
He got stuck and fell over when he tried to pull his boots free. Ironically, Fritzi, who Finn was looking for in the paddock, wasn't even in it! The first thing Finn said to me when he saw me was: "Mama! I saved your lead rope from getting dirty by holding it high over my head!"
At least the boy has his priorities right. It was my good new lead rope, too.
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Although it was cold (just above freezing) it was sunny with no wind, so I parked Finn in the sun while I took a hoof pick and peeled layers of mud off his pants and the inside of his fleece jacket and winter coat. Couldn't do much about the mud inside his boots, t-shirt and underpants, but Finn thought it was the greatest thing ever anyway. Boys and dirt - the eternal attraction.
Then he got to hang out in the "Longhorn Saloon", a cozy little place where the riders drink coffee, eat, chat, play darts and feed the fire in the wood burning stove (Finn's favourite activity). When his pants where somewhat dry he rode Fritzi, bareback. Fritzi didn't mind getting a little dirt on his back, heck, he lives in the stuff 24/7.
 
 
But March didn't bring just mud. It also brought Mogli.
As you might remember, I had a horse sharing agreement with the owners of Bella, the black and white pinto mare. When Bella was put up for sale in January the owners of the barn told me I could have a lease on one of their Quarter Horses once Bella was gone. Well, I didn't wait for Bella to be sold. I have always wanted to ride a well trained, calm Quarter Horse, and Mogli is exactly that. He is 17 years old and, although retired from the show circuit (he is a reining horse), still too fit and agile to just stand around. You snooze, you lose. Mogli inhabits a room with a view where he spends the night and his mornings. I usually ride him in the morning (about three times a week) when the kids are at school/Kindergarten, for various reasons.
 
 
First, Mogli spends his afternoons out on the pasture (in the summer), or in a bigger paddock (in the winter). Which he thoroughly enjoys and then looks like this.
Oh, no, Mo.
 
 
(But luckily Finn and Lily love helping to clean a dirty horse, although the dust can get in your eyes pretty badly, right Finn?)
 
 
 
 
Then, it is kinda hard to keep an eye on the kids while I'm sitting on a horse and riding in an arena. And while I'm all for giving them some freedom to roam and be kids, they do get in trouble sometimes. The other day, George the friendly stable hand had a big pile of straw on the left and a big pile of hay on the right in one of the barns, with a path in the middle for his wheel barrow. When Finn and Lily were done playing George had a big pile of straw and hay mixed together with no path in the middle.
Or, while I was riding, Finn the Firebug was in the saloon, making the place hot and hotter by putting log after log in the wood stove. Until he burned his thumb by touching it against the inside of the stove. The skin turned black and cracked open, and with incredible presence of mind the boy stuck his thumb in the nearest body of water. Which happened to be the dogs' dirty water dish by the door. Not the most sanitary environment for an open wound. Oh well. The dogs didn't mind and Finn survived. It didn't even put too much of a damper on his wood stove affection.
 
Lily, on the other hand, is just happy to play with the dogs, catch a ride on Mo or watch me in the arena. She snapped some nice pictures of us the other day, not bad for a 5-year-old!
 
 
Mo did very well in this trail parcours, and while some reining horses can be a bit hot headed, he handles everything you put in front of him with calm and confidence.
 
 
I think we all have something that makes us happy. Where we are completely in the moment, where we would not want to be anywhere or anyone else, where we feel relaxed and at peace with the world. For some it's maybe hiking up a mountain, or gardening, or playing piano, or experiencing runner's high.
For me, it's this.
 
 
Thank you, Mo.